A Guide to Wedding Dress Shirts: What Every Groom and Guest Should Know

The suit might get all the attention, but never underestimate the power of the shirt underneath. A sharp, well-fitted wedding dress shirt can make or break your look, whether you're the groom, a groomsman, or a sharply dressed guest.

So, how do you choose the right one? From collars to cuffs, colors to fit, here's everything you need to know about men's wedding shirts and how to wear them right.

The Purpose of the Wedding Dress Shirt

Your shirt sets the tone for your outfit, adds structure, and affects the overall fit of your jacket. A high-quality shirt also makes you more comfortable, especially if you're wearing it all day (and night).

Start with the Fit

A great fit is everything. Whether you're dancing, toasting, or just posing for photos, your shirt should move with you, not bunch, gap, or balloon.

• Slim Fit: Tailored and clean, ideal for modern suits and slim builds
  

• Modern Fit: Slightly more room without feeling boxy—a safe choice for most
  

• Classic Fit: Traditional with extra space, better for broader builds or more relaxed looks
  
  

When trying on men’s dress shirts for weddings, do a quick check:

• Shoulder seams line up with your shoulders
  

• Sleeves hit the wrist bone
  

• No pulling at the buttons when tucked in
  
  

Collar Types: Know the Difference

The collar shapes your entire look. Here are the main types you’ll see in wedding shirts:

• Spread Collar: The most versatile; works with ties and bow ties
  

• Point Collar: Traditional, a little more conservative

• Wingtip Collar: Reserved for black-tie or ultra-formal tuxedo looks
  

• Mandarin Collar: Minimal and modern, great for laid-back weddings or non-traditional styles
  
  

For most weddings, a spread collar is the go-to choice. It balances well with nearly every suit or tuxedo style.

Fabric Matters

The best wedding dress shirts feel breathable and maintain their shape throughout the ceremony and reception. Look for natural fibers:

• Cotton: Classic, crisp, and breathable
  

• Cotton-blend: A little stretch and wrinkle resistance
  

• Poplin: Smooth and lightweight
  

• Twill: Slight sheen and texture, ideal for elevated looks
  
  

Avoid heavy or synthetic fabrics—they trap heat and wrinkle easily.

What Color Shirt Should You Wear?

• White: Always appropriate. Clean, timeless, and works with everything.
  

• Ivory or Off-White: Great if your partner’s outfit has a warm tone
  

• Light Blue or Gray: Stylish alternatives for semi-formal or less traditional weddings
  
  

Avoid bold patterns or dark colors unless the dress code specifically allows them. Let your suit and tie do the talking.

Button vs. French Cuffs

Button cuffs are more common and require less maintenance. French cuffs add a dressier feel and provide an opportunity to wear cufflinks.

Go French if:

• You’re wearing a tuxedo
  

• You want to elevate your look
  

• You're aiming for a formal or luxury vibe
  
  

Otherwise, button cuffs work perfectly for most modern weddings.

Shirts for Groomsmen and Guests

When outfitting the crew, consistency is key. Choose a shirt style and color that complements the suits, but doesn’t outshine the groom.

• Groomsmen: White or light blue shirts with matching collars and cuffs
  

• Guests: Classic white or neutral colors in a clean fit (leave the Hawaiian prints at home)
  
  

Final Thoughts: Keep It Sharp, Keep It Simple

The best wedding dress shirts are the ones you don’t have to think about once they’re on. They fit well, feel great, and look clean from aisle to afterparty.

At The Suit Store, we offer a curated collection of men’s wedding shirts that pair effortlessly with our suits and tuxedos. Whether you're buying for yourself or outfitting the whole crew, we’ve got the fit, fabric, and finish you need.

Look good, feel better, and make the most of every photo—The Suit Store is here to help.